Growing up in a homophobic environment I happened to think that if I were gay I would fall in love with my friend. Being queer didn‘t seem to be a possibility to my 9-year-old self. Now that this has changed I often wonder who we would have become if gender norms, sexism and queerphobia didn't exist. I invite you to share your queer memories and stories in the context of queerphobic socialisation processes. Feel free to share your struggles as well as moments of joy and sparkling memories of love. Let's dream together of a world we wished for back then and are longing to manifest in the future. // Alternativ text depending on which version will be displayed: This is a work in progress, as an installation as well as a search for an identity in an ambiguous world. Who would we have become in a world free of sexism, gender norms, and queerphobia? I welcome you to become part of this non-linear journey. I invite you to share your queer memories and stories in the context of queerphobic socialisation processes. Feel free to share your struggles as well as moments of joy and sparkling memories of love. In between, there are also some of mine. Some of them go back to my childhood days, expressing rather feelings of uncertainty than rational chain of thoughts. I invite you to be irrational together. Let’s try to connect with our hearts and emotions as fluid and ambiguous as they might be. Let’s dream together of a world we wished for back then and are still longing to manifest in the future.